What are friends mean to you?
To me, friends are relation that has survived the trials and tribulations of time and still remained unconditional. True friendship shares unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun. Friend is indeed a rare treasure which we should cherish.
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15 years relationship
First student I knew in secondary school. We seat next to each for year. As what others said, real friendships need to survive thru tests and times to find out what friends mean. Yes we gone thru those and I am really grateful to have her back in my life. The tests and times definitely make us to cherish each other more than ever.
One thing I can’t decline, she is one whose care my feeling most (Yes you are, if you’re reading this) She is one of the best person to share my thoughts and feelings because she is the best counseling, because she cares and because she always want the best happen to me (I know it even she never tell me so)
We don’t meet often but we do call to update the latest things of us. I wonder, when friendship turns to years is it we will meet up less than we used to. But I still love to have the long conversations with her every now and then.
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13 years relationship
How many 13 years someone had? She is my evil twins since secondary day. In fact we have nothing in common. We totally have different taste from fashion to food, studies to boys, and dreams to goals. Yet we still maintain our relation till now days, one main reason because we respect and love each others.
There’s uncountable thick and thin we had gone thru. And it makes us stronger in each others heart even thou we never meet often. There’s one magical thing about us, we understand each needs and wants without saying it. She is one and only person whose will support me and stand still on my side no matter what I decide to do, no matter is right or wrong. She is really supportive but spoils me.
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6 years relationship
Never know is been 6 years now. Can’t imagine we gone thru this, I mean just like this and 6 years had past. Hehee.. I am trying to say we have a very peaceful relation. We once were colleagues 3 or 4 years back.
Honestly with her I had the most peaceful yet valuable relationship ever. We never quarrel but we have different opinion, we share our ups and downs. And she is another one of the best person to share my thoughts and feelings. (If you want to know me better, kidnapped her and I am sure you get to know everything of me lolz. I am serious)
As what I said, it was the most peaceful relation I ever had. We never came out often, and if we did it was just a drinking session, the mamak one. And there, we exchange our ups and downs for hours. So it wasn’t weird if I say it takes me for hour to search picture of us. I tried my best; the latest picture we took was 3 or 4 years ago. See I am not lying; our relation is damn over peaceful.
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15 months relationship
They make me laugh like crazy-women by their stupid lame jokes. Yes they are silly and I love them because of it. Hehee.. Okay seriously, I knew them not really a long period but I just love being around them. We never share common things and we are totally different in attitude.
Silly-ness is what brings us together. Yes no joking, they won’t bother or care what’s happening around, as long they are having their very best moment. Lets face it, talk fast or else you won’t have chances to express yourself. Wahahah… they can really talk like there’s no tomorrow, as liked they were mute for years. Try to imagine someone talks her own things or problems and when she stops another one continue with her own things or problems. Is kind of funny, but that’s how we communicate.
They still cares when one of it bump into trouble, they will comfort, advice and give opinion and then there they begin they own story again. No choice but to accept it, it was another way of treatment too. Because then you will find out you’re laughing non stop with the lame jokes. Your problems had half been solved and your stomach gets pain for laughing too much so you forget what make you unhappy.
I don’t really know how we manage to get along but having them is one of the best things happened to me.
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So I think friendship wasn’t measure by period we know each others nor by common things we shared, is by how we get along, respect and cherish each other.
I love you, F.R.I.E.N.D.S!