Life is a Beautiful Struggle

 

 Forgiveness is never easy. Bitterness is easy. Hatred is easy. But forgiveness, that’s a tough one.

 

So be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.

 

Even if the path is a little blurry, keep walking. You’ll focus in when you know what you want. Then the picture of your life will be crystal clear. Just don’t ever give up.

 

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Life kicks you around sometimes. It scares you and it beats you up, but there’s a day when you realize that you’re not just a survivor. You’re a warrior. You’re tougher than anything it throws your way.

 

 

We're after all a little fragile sometimes..

 

In the end, everything matters!

 



Love the people who treat you right



I've made mistakes in my life.

I've let people take advantage of me.

and I've accepted way less than I deserve.

But, I've learned from my bad choices and even though there are some things I can never get back and people who will never be sorry,

I know better next time and I won't settle for anything less than I deserve..

Life always offers you a second chance.. It's called tomorrow.

And I've finally landed to where I belongs..  Im truly blessed to have him! 

Blog #100

This is the #100 blog. 

Does anyone of you have that 'one song' which gives you strength whenever you are tired in life? A song that makes your heart grow in peace, a song that makes you no longer alone and a song that give you strength to move on. I believe everyone had that ‘one song’ and behind the ‘one song’ there’s a great history which able to make you in ease every time you hear it. And this is the song of mine, a song I could never explain why that gave me this kind of feeling.. or maybe I could!!

我好努力去摆脱张志明，最后我发觉我变咗另外一个张志明

曲/詞 曲婉婷
編 張峽浩
監于逸堯/張峽浩
唱 余春嬌

不想在你面前哭
不想在你面前數
到底是誰的錯多過於對方的誤
怨來怨去不如看看走過的路

我們就這樣沒有目的地愛了
毫無保留只因彼此地愛著
不必過多解釋你我有太多往事
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

我們天生都是彼此的學者
誰又知道世界滅亡在哪一刻
唯一欣慰的是有你陪我迎接那一刻
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

只想擺脫你的影子
卻不知我已變成你的影子
現在的你已不是從前的你
從新開始又會是怎樣的結局？

我們就這樣沒有目的地愛了
毫無保留只因彼此地愛著
不必過多解釋你我有太多往事
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

我們天生都是彼此的學者
誰又知道世界滅亡在哪一刻
唯一欣慰的是有你陪我迎接那一刻
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

選擇同時終究是放棄
希望你放棄的不是我
我們就這樣沒有目的地愛了
毫無保留只因彼此地愛著
不必過多解釋你我有太多往事
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

我們天生都是彼此的學者
誰又知道世界滅亡在哪一刻
唯一欣慰的是有你陪我迎接那一刻
曾經說好的：取了就不能捨

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safe & sound

Don't you dare look out your window darling; 

Everything's on fire 

The war outside our door keeps raging on 

Hold onto this lullaby

Even when the music's gone, gone

Just close your eyes 

The sun is going down 

You'll be alright 

No one can hurt you now

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请不要打扰!!

转身的那一秒开始，我的幸福，便与你无关. 所以, 请不要打扰!!

 

Cecelia Ahern

Cecelia Ahern, one of my favorite authors. Her novels is so chick lit which make it so different with other authors. She was born in Dublin in Ireland; a daughter of the former Taoiseach of Ireland, Bertie Ahern. There are two books to go till i finish all of her novels.

 

PS, I Love You 

One of the #1 bestseller novels.

 

Fav Quotes: "

• "Nobody's life is filled with perfect little moments. And if it were they wouldn't be perfect little moments. They would just be normal. How would you know happiness if you never experienced downs?” 

• "Shoot for the moon, even if you fail, you'll land among the stars”

Where Rainbows End / Love, Rosie

One of the greatest novels i had ever read. You will gonna love it, trust me ;)

Fav Quotes:  

• “I don’t want to be one of those easily forgotten people, so important at the time, so special, so influential, and so treasured, yet years later just a vague face and a distant memory."

• “Life is funny isn’t it? Just when you think you’ve got it all figured out,
  just when you finally begin to plan something, get excited about something, and feel like you know what direction you’re heading in, the paths change, the signs change, the wind blows the other way, north is suddenly south, and east is west, and you’re lost. It is so easy to lose your way, to lose direction. And that’s with following all the signposts”

• There’s no limit to what you can dream. You expect the unexpected, you believe in magic, in fairy tales, and in possibilities. Then you grow older and that innocence is shattered and somewhere along the way the reality of life gets in the way and you’re hit by the realization that you can’t be all you wanted to be.

•  Our life is made up of time; our days are measured in hours, our pay measured by those hours, our knowledge is measured by years. We grab a quick few minutes in our busy day to have a coffee break. We rush back to our desks, we watch the clock, we live by appointments. And yet your time eventually runs out and you wonder in your heart of hearts if those seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, and decades were being spent the best way.

If You Could See Me Now

 Fav Quotes:  

• “The more you try to simplify things the more you complicate them. You create rules, build walls, push people away, lie to yourself and ignore true feelings. That is not simplifying things."

• "Life is made up of meetings and partings. People come into your life everyday, you say good morning, you say good evening, some stay for a few minutes, some stay for a few months, some a year, others a whole lifetime. No matter who it is, you meet and then you part.”

  
  
  
  
   

 A Place Called Here

 Fav Quotes:  

• We all get lost once in a while, sometimes by choice, sometimes due to forces beyond our control. When we learn what it is our soul needs to learn, the path presents itself. Sometimes we see the way out but wander further and deeper despite ourselves; the fear, the anger or the sadness preventing us returning. Sometimes we prefer to be lost and wandering, sometimes it's easier. Sometimes we find our own way out. But regardless, always, we are found.

• Things just turn up. You can drive yourself crazy trying to find them. It doesn't matter how neat and tidy you keep your life, it doesn't matter how organised things are, it doesn't matter how much, how often or how closely you keep an eye on things, you can't control it. Sometimes things and people go.. just like that. Don't destroy yourself trying to find out where. 
  

Thanks for the Memories

 Fav Quotes:  

• More often than not, the easy decisions are the wrong decisions, and sometimes we feel like we're going backward when we're actually moving forward.

• “at your weakest, you end up showing more strength; at your lowest, you are suddenly lifted higher than you’ve ever been. They all border one another, these opposites and show how quickly we can be altered.”
   

The Gift

  Fav Quotes:  

• Time cannot be packaged and ribboned and left under trees for Christmas morning. Time can’t be given. But it can be shared.

• “Time is more precious than gold, more precious than diamonds, more precious than oil or any valuable treasures. It is time that we do not have enough of; it is time that causes the war within our hearts, and so we must spend it wisely.” 

 The Book of Tomorrow

Fav Quotes:  

• “What if we knew what tomorrow would bring? Would we fix it? Could we?”

•  “I suppose it’s easier to see the way out of anything when you’ve found your way out of that maze. When you’re stuck in the middle, in a series of dead-ends making circles, it’s difficult to make any sense of anything.”

•  "I used to think that it was better to have too much than too little, but now I think if the too much was never supposed to be yours, you should just take what is yours and give the rest back.

The Time of My Life 

Latest novel, 2011.